If I Had My Life To Live Over

- by Erma Bombeck
(Written after she found out she was dying from cancer.)

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I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would
go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in
storage.

I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over
to dinner, even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room, and worried much
less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his
youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day
because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass
stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-and more while
watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, or wouldn't
show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every
moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance
in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go
get washed up for dinner."

There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's"

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at
it and really see it ...live it...and never give it back.

Stop sweating the small stuff. Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who
has
more, or who's doing what.

Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who Do love us.
Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with, and what we are doing each day
to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally, as well as
spiritually.

Life is too short to let it pass you by.

We only have one shot at this and then it's gone.

I hope you all have a blessed day.

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In memory of Erma Bombeck who lost her fight with cancer. Here is an angel
sent
to watch over you... Pass this on to the people you want watched over....

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